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Masturbation Questions

"Is it normal to masturbate every night?"

As your body develops you might feel like you want to explore it and touch it in new ways. Masturbating is a way of getting sexual pleasure by touching your genital area usually with your hand.

There are different ways of masturbating, although there is no 'correct' way. It's OK to masturbate in any way that feels good for you.

 When people masturbate they can get an intense pleasurable feeling which spreads all over their bodies, this is called an orgasm.

Lots of things people say about masturbation are not true. Masturbation does not cause any mental or physical harm and even if you masturbate and ejaculate many times a day, it will not affect your sex life or make you infertile.

It is important not to feel guilty or scared about masturbating because it is natural and harmless for both men and for women. It is a way of exploring your own body and can help you to find out what you like and don't like sexually.

It is fine to masturbate as often or little as you like. Some people don't masturbate at all and that's OK too. 

"Does masturbation accelerate/encourage your penis to grow?"

Masturbation does not cause your penis to grow any bigger or faster .

"Why do boys wank so much?"

Playing with your penis can help you learn how to control and delay your responsiveness so that pleasure is heightened for both you and your partner/potential partner when you do have sex.

It also feels good and pleasurable! In addition to this, masturbating relieves sexual tension that builds up naturally over time.

This is a very normal process: your sex organs produce and accumulate semen, and your body responds accordingly by making you want to release the ejaculate in order to make room for more.

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